tended isn't a quiz. it won't ask you to answer the same questions your partner answers and compare your results.
it isn't couples therapy, and it isn't a replacement for it. if something is broken, tended isn't the tool for that.
it isn't a shared calendar, a chore tracker, or a habit streak. there's nothing to complete, nothing to maintain, nothing to keep your score on.
and it isn't something you both have to open every day for it to work. one person paying attention is enough for tended to do something meaningful with.
you and one person. you find each other in the app, pair, and that's your world. a shared space built entirely around each other, and nothing else.
both of you contribute. things about yourself — what you love, what you're hoping for, what matters to you. things you've noticed about your partner — the details you pick up just by paying attention. and things that belong to both of you — your rituals, your memories, the small moments that make your relationship yours.
tended holds all of it in a living picture of who you are together. the more you add, the richer it gets. and the richer it gets, the better tended understands what showing up for each other actually looks like.
this is where it comes alive.
tended cross-references everything it knows about your preferences, your partner's wishlist, your important dates, and where you are in the world to surface moments you'd otherwise miss.
a nudge to grab her favorite chocolate as you pass by the place she loves. a reminder that his birthday is in three days and you once mentioned he's been eyeing something. a prompt to check in on something she said she was nervous about last week.
moments that feel like instinct, because someone has been paying attention.
every week, a quiet summary lands in the app. what's been happening in their world. what they might need right now. what you could do. a thoughtful prompt to keep showing up, handed to you before you even thought to ask.
if you're apart, tended knows. it adjusts. it holds the details of each other's lives even when geography makes it hard. keeping each other in mind is its own kind of closeness, and tended makes that easier to hold onto.
you already love them. tended helps you keep showing it.